Life doesn’t always go as planned. There would definitely be many unexpected things to face. Sometimes these situations put us in a place where we would be unable to express ourselves. Like taking me as an example I lost my grandma, who was so close to my heart. Literally she was a stress buster with whom I spent a lot of time and have a lot of memories. It all happened all of a sudden that it still is a shock. I was at loss of words. When people ask me how is everything going I have no words. When they ask me if I miss my grandma I still have no words. It was that I was unable to answer. I know it will take time to recover from this shock that me and my family is facing but this is how life is. Life takes turns at unexpected paths.
This happens to a lot of us. It just happens in a go that we will be in a shock. This is where we need to be strong. The opposite person may understand us or not but we know who we really are. We need to comfort ourselves. I believe God has a plan for all of us. And his plan is greater than ours. In this plan we may face many challenges, problems what not. These unexpected situations might sometimes be the turning point of our lives but they craft us into something more beautiful than ever.
Hey!!! I was busy with my exams so I couldn’t blog. Meanwhile I had a talk with a lot of people around me. I’ve been seeing in other social networks of how people were updating their present situations. But to bring all of them to a conclusion, putting the reasons aside, everyone were feeling low.
So I’m here today to talk about that. I was thinking why would someone feel bad about something that has happened to them? Because it disappointed them. But why would someone be disappointed? Because things didn’t happen the way they thought they would. Am I right? Ofcourse not in all circumstances.
But in few cases you must have had a plan about something and it didn’t go the way you thought. In life there would be many chances of this situation to stand before you. Your plan may not work all the time. But that doesn’t mean you need to be disappointed about it all the time. Let the reason be anything. You didn’t work hard for it, you didn’t follow your plan, you made mistakes and many. You need to be ready for any outcome. Like think, if you are writing a program and there’s a mistake that the complier shows what would you do? You wouldn’t sit and cry ! You’ll try to correct that. Do the same here. Maybe you failed in this attempt then try again who could stop you? The real failure comes when you accept it. Until then it is you who decides. Think about it. Fine maybe even after that you couldn’t do it. Don’t get disappointed. God has a greater plan for you. And you’ll know about it soon. Just trust him and never give up.
In the next case I just saw how people they were comparing themselves to others. We know comparing with others wouldn’t work all the time. Even after that we tend to compare ourselves? And you result in getting depressed because the same didn’t happen with you. Why? Each and every human being is unique. Just like with the spices. There are different spices. And we know none of them would give the same taste so that we could use one spice instead of another. Similarly everyone is unique. So stop comparing! You are designed to do something else unlike others. YOU ARE UNIQUE.
And now here comes the most common thing I’ve been seeing. What? People are feeling down just because a person didn’t accept them. Might be in an interview, at a college or even in terms of relationship. You’ll go nuts if they wouldn’t accept you. What’s wrong if they wouldn’t accept you? They have their own terms and you need to respect them. Its their life you can’t force them right? If they don’t like it then leave it. If its meant to be it would definitely work. Or else you need to move on. For that, you need to love yourself and see god’s beautiful creation in you. Know your worth. Learn to let go of few things. At the end you surely would get what you deserve. What you rightfully deserve will be yours. But you need to be patient. At times you need to adjust. It is purely your decision of adjusting. You don’t always have to adjust. You know your worth. Never let yourself down that others would start to pity you. Be in a state that others would select you as an inspiration. Sometimes you might not know what your worth is. DISCOVER YOURSELF. Your worth more than you think.
In this way there would be many reasons for you to feel down. I don’t mean to say that you shouldn’t feel down. Sometimes thats when you’ll learn who you are and try to develop yourself. Im just saying that there would be many reasons to feel down, take them as opportunities and develop yourself. Just like it’s said – “When life shows you a hundred reasons to feel down show it a thousand reasons to be happy”.
So what generally happens is we get influenced by others on many decisions that we take. Those decisions could be good or bad.
Sometimes those decisions give you happiness and sometimes you regret about them.And it all depends on how you would consider others opinions while you take your decisions. These opinions, as I said, could influence you. They could change the way you think about a person, the way you think about a problem, the kind of tastes you have in your lifestyle and many more.
So just be careful on how you get influenced. Think twice before accepting something . Think with peace . If you don’t like something don’t hesitate to say “NO!!”. In fact learn to say “no” to things you don’t like. That way you would always find a way to be happy.
Think wisely. Sometimes accepting others opinions could help you. Like how you accept your parents opinions, your friends opinions when you feel they are good. So I would say others influence our decisions in many ways think before you accept them, think twice if they are good or bad opinions, think if you would regret accepting them , if you would be happy about them .
I would say love yourself , respect yourself , think you are beautiful in your own way , be good ,make most from life and think you deserve best cause that is when the right things fall in their place.
Hey!! It has been so long since the last time I wrote something on my blog with all my heart (being honest here). I’ve been hearing people talking to me about my blog in both ways. Ignoring the negatives is what I mostly do so yeah taking the positive ones thanks for the support and love guys.
So, today I want to share about regrets.The one which keeps us thinking if you should have done it or not. So, lets be clear here I’ve already talked about regrets in one of my posts “NEVER REGRET”. Still, I keep on thinking if the regrets I think are actually my regrets or not.
Lets say my favourite thing to do is singing. So I give a performance and according to me it went wrong. And yes even if people say I sounded good I wouldn’t be satisfied cause only I know what my true potential is. So now I regret performing that time. But I would have also regretted if I wouldn’t have taken the chance and performed. These kind of regrets are worst. I don’t know about you but they personally haunt me. Whenever I see that place again it would remind me of this incident over and over again.
Lets see an other case. Suppose I love doing something and my family also supports me. But what if in that field there are people who are against our family. And if I keep doing the activity I love there come the fights among them and I had to quit to avoid them. I would regret if I won’t do it also I would regret if I do.
You see these kind of cases are complicated ones. We would be in a stage of not knowing what to do. Just imagine yourself in that position.What would you do?
In these kind of time you need to be wiser than ever. You need to know what decision to make. Okay so now you might regret of losing something but what if there comes time where you get something better than that, what if you could do what you want. Of course it depends on what could happen. But who knows “WHAT LIFE HAS IN STORE FOR YOU”.
All I could finally say is we have regrets all of us do. Some get over them, some ignore them, some try to correct them, some try to get them done correct all over again etc. But we shouldn’t lose hope. Have faith. Have the courage to face it. You might be regretting it again and again but being ready to face it is courage. There will definitely be a day when you wouldn’t regret about a thing. You lose when you think to quit not when you actually lost in something. Strive hard to get what you want.Then see the wonders that happen. Above all don’t forget that it is you who decides to consider your regrets as regrets.
What is passion ? Passion is a feeling of intense enthusiasm towards or compelling desire for someone or something.
So, I say a man with passion is a “WHOLE”. “People with passion make the impossible happen” and that’s how we are today. That’s the reason why we use technology ,why we use electricity or may be also get the best quality basic needs and many .
You see, people with passion don’t just sit and talk ,they put it in action.
A great player comes out of passion. A great singer comes out of passion. A great teacher comes out of passion. Passion is what makes life complete.It makes you who you are.
All of us have this passion in us. We just need to realise it and work to make it stronger or else if fades away as time passes by and there comes “boredom”.
Think! You worked with passion many times. You’re good at DIY’s that came out of passion, you’re a writer you have passion in you, you’re good at singing that’s out of passion and many more.
But we often don’t realise it and to be honest we crush it and never let it grow because of many reasons. Stop doing that. Start loving yourself, start loving your ideas, take good care of yourself. You know what you need. Work on it with great passion.
God made each and every one of us in a unique way. You don’t need to have the same passion like the other but you definitely are good at something.Develop your passion in that field.You know, just like a small fire in a forest spreads through the forest and so does a little passion in you spread. And trust me it spreads like a wild-fire.
Finally, I say passion for a man is like oxygen.A person could create wonders with passion. All you need is to trust yourself no matter what, look what happens later.
Hey !!! its been so long since I wrote something. So today I’m here to talk about going against.
Sometimes going against can turn to be the powerful weapon for our development.lets say you find something more interesting.There’s a chance of it to get clicked and you turn to something you never knew would happen.
Do something different from others.everyone is unique.
Hence, I say ,go against the flow and know more about what you can do!!!